Monday, October 20, 2008

Pink

Hey does pink make anyone else just plain happy? Every time I click over to my page and see those girly hues I smile. I guess I have taken for granted how much I like to see such a feminine color...you know we learn to adapt, adjust and move on. So I have excepted a life of mostly blue, green, camo and even yellow (GO LANCE) but I am happy to say I have re-discovered my inner love of pink! And Ammon even gave his consent to my fun Easter egg colored back ground. Now that he is past the age of "stay as far away as you can from pink, or you will get cooties" to "Pink is the coolest color" I give him the pink cup at dinner and he uses it with pride. I think it is the whole "real men wear pink" thing that is cool now. Elijah is learning color songs at school (B-L-U-E, B-L-U-E spells blue to me). He came home from pre-school the other day and said "Mom I have just the song for you!" and he sang the following for me:
"Pink, Pink What do you think? Cotton Candy, Bubble gum..yum yum yum, I want some. Pink! What do you think!"
He sang it slow and smiley! I told him it is my new favorite song. Since this posting really doesn't have much of a continuous theme may I add another cute Eli moment? I took Ammon and Eli to the park the other day. There were a few girls in a circle playing what ever girls play, (don't ask me!) and Elijah walks up to the group and says "Hellllooo Ladies!" Ammon and I almost died laughing. The girls just stared at him. Eli being Eli simply was oblivious to their rebuff and kept playing. He's hot stuff in his mind.
So back to pink. Whether it's hot or powder, pink makes me happy. I am grateful for pink today! Go have a happy pink day! (or whichever color makes you happy!)

Monday, October 6, 2008

Did That Warm Your Heart?

So often it feels like I am going through the motions and the idea of slowing down to enjoy the journey is pushed back to do later when I have the time....or is it just me? I keep piling the tasks on, keep saying yes to help with whatever until Jeff reminds me "You know Sarah you can say No sometimes". It's not that I don't love volunteering or quick cards or visits to others it's just that life gets soooo crazy. I go through a lot of my days with my mental planner (and real one too) in my head ticking away at the "to-do's" and the "already dids" and the "remember that for tomorrow"s. It's then that a moment will catch you off guard and you remember to re-prioritize. I have re organized my Franklin Planner so that family needs- not tasks are written first. It's amazing how writing them down at the top of the page completely changes your outlook. This happened today. Mondays are crazy! The last few have been chaotic to say the least...preschool, phone calls, bills, laundry, house cleaning, early dinner to make T ball at 5:30, Fencing at 6:30- and then around 30 minutes after the kids are in bed (which is 30 minutes after they SHOULD have been in bed!) as I finish cleaning up the kitchen I realize that I am dead on my feet and that I actually did not sit down once through the whole day (car seat doesn't count). Even my meals were eaten on my feet as I filed paperwork or did my make-up. (That is so not the French way...) Still trying to figure out how to multi-task in the shower..will it really zap me if I keep texting in the shower?
Well tonight we cleared the schedule! AJ decided he is not that crazy about Fencing and Eli has T ball on Tuesday instead. We actually held Family Home Evening on Monday night instead of Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday or on the drive to church....
Please don't think I am complaining..it's just life, but it made the enclosed experience quite sweet.
Our Family Home Evening Lesson was on "Family First". Loving our Brothers because they can be our best friends for the rest of their lives. (if you have daughters, insert "sisters" here.) We discussed kind things that they do for each other that "warm our hearts" as moms and dads. Elijah spent the majority of the time climbing all over me as I talked and I was pretty sure he didn't hear more than 3 words. The treat (after a rip-roaring game of Hide-and-go-seek) was ice cream. As we sat there eating our Caramel Tracks Delight, Elijah turned to Patrick and said "I love you Patrick". I sighed an "ohhhh". Then Elijah turned to me and said "Did that warm your heart?". I was struck by the question and I realized "Yes it did!" The words coming out of my mouth may be hanging in space somewhere, but along the way there they did pass through my busy boys heads! And it totally helps that they are so cute too.
So I have recommitted to stop concentrating on the check marks of another task well done, but instead on doing the most important things well. This week I shall seek out actions that can "warm my heart" and be sure to serve others so that I might create warm hearts where ever I go...(too cheesy? It must be all the sugar in my brain left over from the Caramel Delight:)
Did that warm your heart?